First of all, I don’t stand. If I was someone else, I might find a way to be offended by something like this…but that would be...

Recently my ten year old was asked, “what makes your family different but also unique?” What do you think his answer was? I bet you’re...

Since I began this page, I’ve kind of been more inclined to do some research and soul searching. It’s been eye opening to say the least....

This past weekend I had two friends each ask me different personal questions. They both said they always wanted to know but because of...

Everyone has fears, right? I worry about like nine million things every day but I do have a couple of actual fears and I thought I would...

As many of you may already know, today is my birthday. I had something planned to share but I’m going to save that for another day...

Today begins a new year and a new decade. We see this as a time for reflection and a time for change but you know what? YOU CAN DO THAT...

Someone made an offhand comment the other night while my husband was throwing my wheelchair into the back of an uber at three am that...

We’ve been back in New York visiting family for the holidays and I’m feeling a little nostalgic. It’s so nice to be surrounded by family...

In scrolling through my feed the last couple of days I’m noticing a lot of people stressing over last minute gifts and the mountains of...

Relationships are about balance. Think of a relationship like a business; if you enter into a partnership with a person, the workload and...

In a recent question and answer session, I was asked something like: “what do you do to feel sexy as a woman in a wheelchair?” My answer...

I had something planned for today’s post but I’m going to put it on hold for now. I got really triggered about something this morning and...

I know I posted about this a while ago, but regarding sex and intimacy I think the most important knowledge bomb I can drop for you here...

Yesterday we were discussing (I was lecturing you) about trust and sexual relationships with a spinal cord injury. Here are some more...

On the very short list of advantages of having this disability - more specifically, sexual advantages, is trust. Okay, first let me break...

Thank you to those that reached out wondering why I haven’t been running my mouth for the last week. I was very busy with a big work...

The main condition of release from my prison sentence - I mean, rehab, was being deemed ‘independent’. I had to learn to take care of...

Continuing on from yesterday… The car crash we were in took place just a couple of blocks from the home of the last girl’s house we...

I thought this would be a good time to explain some things about myself and how I got to be who and where I am today. This might take a...